I was living in New York City in the Village with my very young daughter, newly divorced, alone, and quite broke. Christmas was going to be meager, or so I thought at the time, which was around 1970.
I barely had any friends in the city but around December, I met John and we quickly became friends. John was from England, kind of an offbeat free spirit and reminded me of the Beatles, who, at the time, were very popular, having recently visited New York. I would take walks and have long talks with John, who like me, seemed somewhat of a loner.
My most recent graphic design job had ended with a layoff, as had many advertising jobs around that time. Freelance graphics jobs were fewer and farther between. My financial situation required frugality, to say the least.
So Christmas Eve found me alone with my daughter, just glad to be with her. At some point there was a buzz at the door, and after buzzing back, and a bit of wait to see who it was (I lived in a 2nd floor walk up), John appeared, and with him a magnificent Scotch Pine, having dragged it through the streets of Manhattan, when some tree seller threw it out. We put it up and I had a tree, a friend and a Christmas filled with warmth and cheer, as well as spirit. I’ll never forget that Christmas, or John—who since then has enjoyed many Christmas’ with my daughter and I.



My most unforgettable and craziest shopping memory in New York City took place on a cool November evening in 1965. I had just left work in the garment district of the city and was feeling very proud of myself because my plan was to start my Christmas shopping early for once in my life. I walked a few blocks to the Gimbels Department Store that was located on the corner of Sixth Avenue and Thirty Third Street. Gimbels was Macy s biggest competitor in those days and their sales were legendary, especially their famous basement bargains.
When we reached the street level, the elevator operator opened the doors and announced the main floor (yes, they had human operators, no push buttons, in those days). As I stepped out, the lights went out and the entire building was enveloped in total blackness. I heard people calling for help because some riders on the escalator had fallen when it jerked to a stop as the power failed. I didn’t know it at the time but the entire Northeast area of the United States and a great deal of Canada had been blacked out. It became known as the Great Northeast Blackout of 1965.